Need some ideas to make your lovemaking phenomenal?
These 7 tips should give you plenty of ideas to
make your midnight sessions more hot, steamy and
passionate, starting today…
1. Become more sensual
While most men want to ‘get the job done’ and reach
the goal of orgasm, for women it’s more about the
journey. Women love to reach climax as much as men
do, but they also love a sensual stroke from your
hand across their leg.
Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms and hair
are all really sensitive areas that love to be
stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay
caressing and touching these areas, and watch how
it pleases your partner and can even intensify
their orgasm.
2. Try positions proven to increase pleasure
For women: The reverse missionary is identical to
the traditional missionary except that she is on
top. This is probably the easiest position for a
woman to climax because she can control the
friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.
For men: Practically every animal species utilizes
the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a
natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. Although
you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many
benefits. It is great for guys because they have
full control over movement and pleasure.
3. Play bedroom games
Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the
best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire
lovemaking experience. They’re fun, sexy and have a
lot of replay value.
Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create
your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a
sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just
want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t
matter. Simply get excited and unleash some
creativity!
And even while some games only consist of familiar
tips and moves, you'll be using them in new
scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.
4. Set a romantic mood
People often think that using candles, music,
incense and even rose petals to set the mood of
their lovemaking is too “cliché.” Are they kidding!
Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine
how happy you would feel if someone went to all the
trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion
that you can cherish for years to come. Could this
be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much?
Point made.
5. Give them a sexy massage
Why stop at setting the mood? Go one step further
and give your partner a sensual massage that makes
them feel relaxed and loved at the same time. Make
it sexy, sensual, and pleasurable. Massage them
naked or build up the anticipation by having them
slowly undress during the massage. Then kiss,
caress and slowly transition “under the sheets”
where a massage of another kind can take place.
And no, you don’t need years of study to give a
great massage. Just grab some candles and music,
and bless your partner with an experience they’ll
never forget.
6. Please your partner with more oral sex
Did you know that oral sex is a great way to
strengthen your relationship? Think about it. It
takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody
have their mouth down there. Not to mention it’s
great for men who want to relax without pressure to
perform, and for women who can’t reach orgasm from
only intercourse. In short, it’s an important part
of foreplay. Here are some tips for both men and
women.
Ladies: Women often start fellatio by sucking on
the penis straightaway when, actually, they should
start with some playful teasing and soft touches.
This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it
heightens his anticipation.
Gentlemen: A mistake men often make is moving their
tongue in a thrusting fashion, when stimulating the
vagina and clitoris orally. Instead, they should
lick it like an ice cream cone. Another great tip
to keep things exciting is to write the alphabet
around the clitoris with your tongue.
7. Use household items
It makes sense that to spice things up you need to
do something different. The more unique the
experience, the more it fires up your lovemaking.
Well, just recently I've found one of the very BEST
ways to keep things passionate and exciting. It’s
by using household items.
Huh? That's right! There are literally 100's of
household items you can play with in your house.
Everything from a rolling pin for a massage, ice
for a cool sensation, cards for a naughty game or
sheepskin that feels soft under your skin.
By dedicating time to finding new items, you can
turn ordinary lovemaking into extraordinary
lovemaking for longer, and keep it that way. And
while positions and techniques get old quickly,
these items add a NEW LEVEL to your lovemaking that
normal lovemaking just can't do. This is the
sure-fire way to make sure your lovemaking stays
passionate, pleasurable, and intimate for years to
come.
In fact, unlike all the other suggestions, using
household items for foreplay and intercourse proves
to be the most unique and powerful way to spice up
lovemaking.
About the Author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of
"Sex All Around The House - Using Everyday
Household Items To Spice Up Your Sex Life," helping
you get in the mood, prolong the passion and create
totally new sensations. Handpicked from over 1500
tips. To read more, visit: Great Lovemaking